I have experience in a relationship with my mother or with a mother figure
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1. I often worry that my mother doesn't really love me.
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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Instructions: The statements below concern how you felt, when you were younger in your relationship with your mother or someone that you perceive as a mother figure to you. Respond to each statement by circling the number that most reflects your own beliefs. Please respond using the 7 point scale:
2. I worry that my mother doesn't care about me as much as I care about her.
relationships_mother_2
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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3. I am nervous when my mother gets too close to my space.
relationships_mother_3
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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4. I often wish that my mother's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for her.
relationships_mother_4
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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5. When my mother is out of sight, I worry that she might forget about what I need.
relationships_mother_5
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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6. I prefer not to show my mother how I feel deep down.
relationships_mother_6
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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7. I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings with my mother.
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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8. When I show my feelings for my mother, I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me.
relationships_mother_8
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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9. I do not often worry about being abandoned.
relationships_mother_9
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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10. It's not difficult for me to get close to my mother.
relationships_mother_10
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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11. I find that my mother doesn't want to get as close as I would like.
relationships_mother_11
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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12. I find it easy to depend on my mother.
relationships_mother_12
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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13. It's easy for me to be affectionate with my mother.
relationships_mother_13
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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14. Sometimes my mother changes her feelings about me for no apparent reason.
relationships_mother_14
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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15. My desire to be very close sometimes drives my mother away.
relationships_mother_15
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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16. I don't feel comfortable opening up to my mother.
relationships_mother_16
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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17. I prefer not to be too close to my mother.
relationships_mother_17
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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18. I'm afraid once my mother gets to know me, she won't like who I really am.
relationships_mother_18
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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19. I feel comfortable depending on my mother.
relationships_mother_19
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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20. I worry that I won't measure up to my mother.
relationships_mother_20
N
radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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21. My mother only seems to notice me when I'm angry.
relationships_mother_21
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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22. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on my mother.
relationships_mother_22
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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23. I am very comfortable being close to my mother.
relationships_mother_23
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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24. I rarely worry about my mother leaving me.
relationships_mother_24
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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25. My mother makes me doubt myself.
relationships_mother_25
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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26. I get uncomfortable when my mother wants to be very close.
relationships_mother_26
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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27. I worry a lot about my relationship with my mother.
relationships_mother_27
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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28. I find it relatively easy to get close to my mother.
relationships_mother_28
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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29. I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my mother.
relationships_mother_29
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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30. It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my mother.
relationships_mother_30
N
radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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31. It helps to turn to my mother in times of need.
relationships_mother_31
N
radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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32. I tell my mother just about everything.
relationships_mother_32
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1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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33. I'm afraid that I will lose my mother's love.
relationships_mother_33
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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34. I often worry that my mother will not want to be with me.
relationships_mother_34
N
radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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35. I talk things over with my mother.
relationships_mother_35
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radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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36. My mother really understands me and my needs.
relationships_mother_36
N
radio
1, 1 Disagree Strongly | 2, 2 | 3, 3 | 4, 4 Neutral/Mixed | 5, 5 | 6, 6 | 7, 7 Agree Strongly
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Notes
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